MAGAZINE: Intelligence
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8 Tips to Make Your Kids Finally Listen to What You’re Saying
1. Teach Them How To Listen
In order for a child to concentrate on what is being said to him, a child needs to feel like he’s “a part of it”. Use this technique often used by school teachers who place their hand on the shoulder of the child they are addressing as if to say: “Yes, it’s you that I’m talking to, and nobody else.” Say the child’s name as you do this, especially if he or she is between 2 and 5 years-old.
2. Lower Your Voice to Be Better Understood
Parents are often tempted to raise their voices, but they had better do this as seldom as possible. By speaking to children in a hushed and whispered voice, children will try to listen more closely. The child prefers this method of communication as it gives him the feeling that he is being told a secret!
3. Bend Down To Match Their Height
Speaking to children without being at the same height gives the impression that there is a distance, which in turn lessens the importance of the spoken message. Take the habit of bending down on one knee to level your eyes with those of your young listener. This way you will convey a more meaningful and personal message.
4. Allow for a Two-Way Conversation
Have family talks about what you all enjoy: meals, television, outings… By giving the children the opportunity to participate in such conversations, they will be forced to listen to one another, creating a natural exchange of information among the members of the family. This is a good way to measure the level of vivacity in your children’s mind, and also a great opportunity to discuss potentially taking an online IQ test!
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